I Miss You... Hope All is Well

 Do you ever sit down to blog and realize "I haven't read a post by ... in a while"? I did that today. Three of my favorite bloggers came to mind and I looked at my blog roll to see when they last posted. One was in December 2020 and the other two last posted nine monts ago! 

So first off, shame on me for not noticing sooner. And second, none of them have attached email addresses so I can check on them. I hope they're ok.

Bloggers drop off on a regular basis. I have to admit there are less than 10 bloggers between my two blogs that I actually contact outside of Blogger. And that's generally only to exchange Christmas cards.

Blogging relationships are so special. They can feel so deep when you connect with someone in your same stage of life, or someone who enjoys the same hobby (cross-stitch) or someone with the same obsession (ALL THINGS CHRISTMAS!!!) or especially someone who shares your faith journey.

These relationships enrich my life. But... they're online. That means they can drop from my life in an instant. Real life relationships fade, but that's just it. They fade. They don't generally end in the blink of an eye, or in my examples, in the blink of several months.

So to the bloggers I'm missing I want to say, I enjoyed reading your posts. I enjoyed getting to know you in even a small way. I miss you.

And to those of you still posting, I love reading your posts. I look forward each (well, it used to be each, now it's a couple times a week) morning to see what you've been doing, to be inspired by you, to feel the warmth of our blog relationship. I love getting to know you. I hope we stay connected.

A Little Progress...

 

A little bit of progress on our new house - the plumbing is in! We're hoping the slab will be poured by the end of this week (fingers crossed).

You may notice the cloudy sky in this photo. We've had a real Monsoon this year. Cloudy for parts of every day and a bit of rain here and there. Also our normal high this time of year is 107 degrees and we've been below that for several days and the 10-day forecast actually has some 90s in it!

In the meantime I'm continuing to declutter. This weekend we made trips to the dump, Goodwill, and storage. I just have a feeling that I'm still keeping too much stuff for our much smaller house...

From Ten Percent to Thirty Percent

 Back in January when I was thinking about 2021 and the goals, plans, wishes and dreams I have for the year I wrote that I wanted to declutter my home by 10%. My motivation was that with my daughter's family moving out I came to realize that there was still too much stuff in my house.

That was January. In March, my son and his daughter moved in with us. Yeah. Once more I rushed around cramming my belongings into wherever I could fit them to make room for Zach and Skye. As usual, my goal was for them to feel at home in the space they're occupying.

That's the prologue to this post. Now on to the actual story. Dan and I have been discussing for years what the next phase of our lives should look like. We knew we wanted to downsize (our home is 2600+ sq ft and I'm tired of cleaning it), but with the housing market so hot we felt it was a poor choice to downsize in sq footage only to upsize in the mortgage payment. Then we visited a Fulton Homes community in our area. The included options were so amazing we started to seriously consider buying a new build. We had our Realtor come out to look at our house and after learning we could pretty much sell it "as is" and make a lot of money for a down payment, decided to move forward. (Side note: my husband Dan is a real estate appraiser. He'd been telling me the same thing our Realtor Nick told me. But you know how it is, I had to hear is from another source to believe it! haha)

Nick warned us that the community we were looking at had put a hold on releasing lots but I wanted to go and talk to them anyway. We went on a Sunday afternoon in late March. When we walked into the Sales Office the Sales Associate asked what floor plan we were interested in and then told us there are lots available. We were stunned. Apparently he had come in that morning to find that five lots had been released for sale. Long story short, we signed a contract for a new home on March 28.

It will take up to 14 months to build the home because of the supply shortages. Fine with me. I have a house to live in that is rising in value each day that I'm here. Although I have to admit, I am so excited to move into a smaller home that it's a little hard to grasp how long it will take.

You may have figured out by now why my original plan to declutter by 10% has risen to 30%. Dan told me that the new house is 33% smaller than our current home. 

Oh yeah, and I have no idea what our new floor plan actually looks or feels like because there are no models of it within 40 miles of where we live. So I'm trying to downsize my belongings based on a floor plan map and a virtual tour of the home. 

We picked out our structural options in early April and visited the Design Center last week to choose our flooring, paint, cabinets, etc. Our dirt lot is still a dirt lot. We've been told they might "start" it tomorrow (which means laying the boards to mark the foundation). Hey, a start is a start, right?!

I'm hopeful that the supply chain issues will start to improve, but I also know that realistically I may not be in my new home until Spring 2022. And that works for me.

This is our dirt. The houses in the background are the next street over.

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